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Holy
Cross * St. Joachim * St.
Albert * St.
Anthony *
Our Lady of Peace
CATHOLIC
CEMETERIES
Who
should be
buried in a Catholic cemetery?
Those
who believe in Christ and those who wish to share
in the belief in resurrection and life after death. Burial in a
Catholic
cemetery is an affirmation of Christian faith, a statement of belief in
Christ's words - I am the
Resurrection and the
Life; whoever believes in me, even if he dies, will live, and everyone
who
lives and believes in me will never die. (John 11:25).
Must a Catholic
be buried in a Catholic cemetery?
The
normal and expected situation is to bury a Catholic
in a Catholic cemetery. However, a Catholic may be buried in another
cemetery, depending
on circumstances.
Why
should I be
buried in a Catholic cemetery?
Believers
in Jesus Christ form a community of disciples
founded on a shared faith in the Resurrection. A Catholic cemetery
continues
that community ...even in death. Here all await the Lord's call to a
new life.
The
Catholic Church brings its own traditions, beliefs
and sensibilities to the reality of death. Such customs can be fully
expressed
in our Catholic Cemeteries. These are places appropriate for prayer and
liturgy, visitation and remembrance. Sacred art and holy shrines
strengthen our
faith in the Resurrection. The beauty of these holy grounds ministers
comfort
and peace.
The five
Catholic Cemeteries in Edmonton are owned and
operated by the
Archdiocese on behalf of the Catholic parishes. We exercise an
uninterrupted
ministry of consolation, guided by the universal Roman Catholic Church,
the
Archdiocese of Edmonton and the needs, of those we serve. Our
non-profit,
self-sustaining operation is based on guiding principles and deeply
held
beliefs assuring permanence, reverence and respect for the deceased and
support for
the living.
We support a
variety of spiritual services and ministries
in parishes and offer charitable burial assistance through various
agencies. We
thus express our mission and philosophy while learning more about the
delicate
balance between ministry and business.
Are
Catholics still required to be buried
in Catholic cemeteries, or can they be buried anywhere since the grave
is blessed at the time of the burial?
The Church
now allows Catholics to be buried in secular cemeteries,
when distance or unavailability of a consecrated Catholic cemetery
would create a hardship for the family.
It is still
strongly recommended and preferred that, wherever possible,
the Bishop make available Catholic cemeteries for the use of the
Faithful.
In the
Archdiocese of Edmonton we are fortunate to have five diocesan
cemetery properties (Holy Cross, St. Albert, St. Anthony, St. Joachim
and Our Lady of Peace) which operate on a cost-recovery basis and
therefore offer significant cost benefits to parishioners. Also, there
are well over 100 parish cemeteries located in small towns and rural
areas in central Alberta.
Are
all
cemeteries sacred ground?
All cemeteries
and burial places are meant to be places
of reverence. The Catholic cemetery is
considered an extension of the parish church, and like a parish church,
is
solemnly blessed or “consecrated” by the Bishop. A
catholic cemetery is to be a prayerful
place, a permanent memorial for those we have lost; a place where
special
celebrations are held through out the year. Monthly
memorial Masses and an annual
Celebration of Life Mass are held
in remembrance of those who have died.
Should
I choose
a crypt, a niche or a grave?
In-ground burial
in a grave has been the traditional
choice for many years.
Above-ground
burial in a crypt or niche has become a
recent preference in our Cemeteries over the last 15 years since the
opening of
the Holy Cross Mausoleum.
Personal
preference, family tradition, cemetery location
and factors related to faith, economics or even ecology can guide such
a
choice.
To help make this
choice clearer we will provide cost
comparisons with full disclosure of our prices, products & services.
What
is a vault?
Is it Required?
A concrete liner
or upgraded vault is a box that the
casket is placed in and sealed. A
concrete liner is the most commonly used outer container but families
may
upgrade this to a stronger decorative vault for the protection of the
casket. A liner or vault is a
requirement for burial of a casket in the cemeteries.
How
do I
purchase a grave memorial?
Memorials, both
traditional and lawn level are offered at
both our north and south offices. A display of granite and bronze
markers and
brochures on the various choices are there for your information. After
choosing the type of memorialization,
bronze or granite, the size and discussing design options, we can
provide a
computer-generated proposal drawing as part of the contract work. In
most instances a black-and-white rendering of the finished design for
the
granite is available to the purchaser. The purchaser approves the
design
and
wording for the completeness and accuracybefore the marker or memorial
is manufactured.
We encourage
full payment, but also have provisions for a
substantial down payment at signing with complete payment upon delivery. All markers and monuments are installed by
the Cemetery staff and this installation amount is included in the cost
of the
memorialization.
Can
I change my
mind after signing a purchase contract?
Yes. Within the
first 30 days of an agreement for burial
space, changes are quite easily made or a full principle refund may be
issued,
provided no burial space has been used.
After this
initial 30 days, modifications are possible
under defined conditions. In all cases, the business policies of
Edmonton
Catholic Cemeteries subscribe to fairness and include the utmost
consideration
for our Christian faithful.
Please
contact a
Family Advisor for more
detailed information about contract modifications and cancellations.
What
is a full
facility cemetery?
Full facility
Catholic cemeteries offer a complete range
of choices for families. Our Lady of
Peace and Holy Cross Cemeteries are full
facility
cemeteries. Full facility cemeteries offer:
- larger sites
with room for expansion
- have shrine areas and special features
- spaces for casket and cremains burial, individual and
shared
- mausoleums at Holy Cross that inter cremains in niches and caskets in crypts.
- columbarium at Our Lady of Peace that inter cremains in niches, inside and outside facilities
- shared services on Mother’s and Father’s day, and other
special times of the year
- a full time office with a caring, compassionate staff on
site year round
- a large selection of bronze and granite memorialization
and cremation urns and vaults
What
is an
historical cemetery?
As their name
implies historical cemeteries are the older
cemeteries, St. Albert, St Joachim and
St.
Anthony. These cemeteries are often in the center of residential areas and have:
- few if any
spaces left for sale and no room to expand - mature trees and shrubbery but no large central
features or design elements
- no offices or mausoleum on site
- no cemetery records are kept on site
- appeal to families who have generations buried in the
older cemetery who would like to arrange for burial with those family
members.
I like the
idea of above-ground
entombment but I don't plan to be cremated. Is there
space in the Mausoleum at Holy Cross for casket burial?
Absolutely.
The Mausoleum walls themselves are steel-reinforced
concrete crypts suitable for the entombment of one or two crypts in a
sealed unit with granite or marble "face" for the inscription.
Crypt
entombment is a very old Christian tradition, dating back to the
earliest days of the Church, when the bodies of believers were entombed
in crypts which we know as the Catacombs. Frequently the Eucharist was
celebrated in the midst of those crypts, visibly illustrating the
concept of the "communion of saints".
Later on,
churches were built above those early entombment sites and,
eventually, the adjacent churchyard became the place of burial. Now,
especially in large urban centres, the Catholic cemetery must be
located at a greater distance from the parish church, but the
connection is still just as real and important.
What
is a
mausoleum?
A mausoleum is a
building containing crypt spaces for
caskets and niche spaces for cremated remains.
This structure is
more than a building, It is a sacred
space, that serves the
faithful and witnesses the hope we share in the resurrection. It is a place where the signs and symbols of
our Catholic faith are displayed with pride and reverence.
It is an appropriate place for gathering
in
ritual prayer and a fitting place for private meditation.
Mausoleums are
highly engineered buildings constructed to
last for centuries. Plans are drawn up
and construction monitored by architects and engineers.
Mausoleums
make
above-ground entombment affordable for
most families. The total costs for cremains interment can be
comparable
or less than ground burial when memorialization is factored into the costs of each.
How
do I make a
purchase?
The Catholic
Cemeteries formalize purchases with
contracts and supporting paperwork for:
- the purchase of burial space (graves, crypts or niches)
- the purchase of grave
memorials (monuments and markers, in granite or bronze)
These contracts
formally and legally define:
- what is purchased from the Cemeteries
- who made the purchase, who is the owner, who is the user of the purchase
- the exact burial
location
- the cost of the purchase
- the time frame for payment of the purchase
Thereby, the
duties, expectations and obligations of both
parties are clearly defined and copies of all information is kept at
the
cemeteries offices for future reference.
A down payment
is required at the signing of a purchase
contract. We take cash, checks, credit and debit cards. We encourage
complete
payment at the time of signing but for most contracts financing is
available.
Who
helps me
write a purchase contract?
A Family Service
Advisor, who is professional, competent
and knowledgeable, meets with those interested in making a
purchase. They will complete all necessary
paperwork
and offer all the necessary information and support materials. Depending on the type of cemetery, all
pricing is consistent at all of ourCemeteries.
If I
move after
purchasing, can I get a refund?
Yes. The
cemeteries will refund the amount you paid or seventy five percent of
today’s
cost, which ever amount is greater. There
is a nominal administration fee to
cancel the spaces.
Do I
actually
own the burial space?
No. These are
Sacred Burial
Grounds. Archdiocesan Catholic Cemeteries are not divided into real
estate. A
purchaser is acquiring rights to burial space – easement rights-
assuming
complete control over all immediate and future burial decisions.
The space is
continuously owned and maintained by
Edmonton Catholic Cemeteries, providing firm, long-term stability.
Contracts,
supporting paperwork and policy establish ownership and control of
these
rights, even through changing generations of family.
Can
I sell my
burial space on the open market?
Yes but Edmonton Catholic
Cemeteries does
purchase these spaces back at the cost of the original purchase or at
seventy-five percent of today’s value, whichever is greater. If the
spaces are sold by private sale, Edmonton Catholic Cemeteries does not
recognize the sale of burial rights
between the private parties until the sale is properly recorded at the
cemetery
office.
Burial rights
may be transferred to another person, usually
a family member in the same manner of recording at the cemetery office.
The
documentation must be signed by the owner and witnessed by cemetery
personnel.
For all
transfers a nominal administration fee will be
charged and must be paid upon acceptance of the Transfer Agreement at
the
office.
Do I
have to pay
a monthly maintenance fee?
No, the
cemeteries are cared for through an endowment
care fund. A one-time future care fee is
charged at the time you purchase a grave, crypt or niche.
This fee is part of the quoted space
fee, not
an additional fee. It is held in a
special fund , the proceeds of which are used to cover maintenance
costs
throughout the cemetery.
Is
there any
chance my burial space will be re-sold by the cemetery?
No. The Catholic
Cemeteries
grant an owner future rights for burial. At this time the space is
never
reclaimed and resold, if fully paid. The
purchaser has an exclusive and permanent right of use though the
easement. This right is passed on to the
estate after
death of the recorded owner, although the spouse has the first right of
burial.
If
burial is planned for a space
owned by another or an estate, it is advisable to secure permission in
advance
and have the permission added to the cemetery records to prevent
unnecessary
stress at the time when the permission is used.
How
do I control
who will be buried in my burial space?
For graves, the
owner has exclusive and permanent right
of use through the Purchase Invoice. Beyond the
owner's spouse, who has full control
and the first right of burial, this right passes to the estate and the
direct
blood heirs immediately after the death of the original owner. A
married couple
is considered a joint owner.
Written
permission of the heirs may be required for
burial. Beyond children, it is often very difficult to establish
control and
permission. Therefore, we strongly encourage all owners of burial
rights to
complete a Permission
to
Bury Form to make official
burial assignments prior to their death.
This will prevent unnecessary stress at the time when permission is
essential.
The document can be easily amended if new circumstances arise.
For niches and
crypts, the right of burial is defined in
the contract and can only be amended by the original owners during
their
lifetimes.
What
mandatory
costs are involved in purchasing and using cemetery property?
For a casket
burial there are three components that are
mandatory – the cost of the grave, which includes an amount put aside
for the
future care of the grave and the cemetery , the cost of the opening and
closing
of that grave and finally the cost of the liner or vault which is used
to
protect a casket in all ground burials.
In a niche or
crypt in the Mausoleum, the package cost
includes all components necessary for
regular burial.
What
optional
costs can be involved in purchasing and using cemetery property?
The memorial or
marker is an optional cost. A memorial in
granite or bronze can be set at
a grave, according to cemetery regulations. Other memorialization
opportunities
include, but are not limited to, religious plaques or symbols, emblems,
vases
with floral arrangements, living memorials, benches, photo ceramics and
Eternal
Lights. These options may be chosen at the time of the initial burial
rights
agreement or anytime afterward. Choices may be restricted by grave,
crypt or
niche location.
Other optional
costs include:
- an overtime surcharge for Saturday burial or on certain
holidays.
- an urn for ground burial or niche interment
- special inscriptions or vases in the mausoleum or
columbarium.
How
many people
can be buried in a single burial space?
Edmonton
Catholic Cemeteries has set our the number of
placements in diifferent spaces, crypts and niches to
insure the distinguished and adequate
memorialization of the deceased. Spaces,
niches and crypts are sold to families with these placement guidelines
and
numbers already in place. Contact the office to get an exact number of burials alowed in a specific space.
Why
should I
prearrange my cemetery and funeral needs?
Prearranging for
death is not a sign of hopelessness; it
is an expression of trust, faith and acceptance in the Resurrection of
our
Lord.
By
pre-planning your funeral and burial your wishes are
made clear, and the burden of making funeral arrangements is lifted
from your family at a time of sorrow. Thses wishes will be
implemented at the time of death and your funeral and burial will
reflect
your Catholic Faith. Advance planning is the best way to avoid heavier
financial burdens later. Decisions are better made when made apart from
the
emotions and stress of a death. Couples, who lived for years together,
should
plan their burials together while in sound mind and body.
Our
Family
Advisors will assist you and respect your
preferences - personal, family, emotional, financial and spiritual. We
will
make a full, unhurried, in-depth disclosure, so you can make prudent
and
informed choices in an atmosphere free from the anguish and grief that
accompanies a death.
Is there
any benefit to pre-planning, or
should I let my family look after everything when the time comes?
Planning in
advance is ALWAYS a good idea, whether you're planning for
a wedding, for your children's education, for your financial security
before retirement ... or for your funeral. When you plan ahead of time,
you make decisions based on your own priorities, You have time to write
down all your questions, make sure they are answered, and arrive at
well-thought-out conclusions.
Funeral and
cemetery arrangements may also be pre-paid. Edmonton
Catholic Cemeteries and funeral homes offer the opportunity to pay now
in order to guarantee the price of a funeral at some time in the
future. These pre-paid funds are held in trust and carefully monitored
by the Archdiocese or -- in the case of funeral homes -- by the
Province of Alberta, so you are assured of the security of your
arrangements.
You may
also wish to pre-plan the funeral liturgy. Most parishes have
staff available who can help you choose readings, music and other make
other decisions so that your family will not have to wonder what you
would have liked.
Nobody
likes to spend time thinking about death and it wouldn't be
healthy to do so. We don't have control over WHEN or HOW we will die,
but we CAN take control of what will happen after our death. Make sure
you have a current, valid will. Make sure you have designed legal
guardians for your minor children. Talk to your family about funeral
and cemetery arrangements; it may be a difficult conversation, but
it's an important one and ultimately a caring gift to them.
CREMATION
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What
is
cremation?
Cremation is the
reduction of the body of a deceased
person to recoverable bone fragments through a process that combines
intense
heat and evaporation that reduces the body to its original elements. After cooling, the fragments are
pulverized. The
commonly used term is ashes, but these
remains are not ash, but bone fragments. The
proper name is ”cremated remains of
the body” or cremains.
As a
Catholic,
can I choose cremation?
Yes. In light of
the renewal
begun with the Second Vatican Council (1962-65), the revised Code
of Canon Law
(1983) states - The
Church
earnestly recommends
the pious custom of burial be retained; but it does not forbid
cremation,
unless this is chosen for reasons which are contrary to Christian
teaching.
The choice of
cremation has implications for the funeral
rites that follow death. A reverent and memorialized placement in a
grave,
niche or crypt is essential. These are mortal remains of a human being.
The
face and body may
be gone, but the meaning of that person continues.
Our
Family
Advisors can assist in sorting through
cremation options and preparing for a cemetery burial after cremation.
I thought
cremation was forbidden to
Catholics. Has the Church's position changed?
Early
Christians' faith in the resurrection of the body was ridiculed
by Roman society; sometimes the bodies of Christians were cremated in
order to mock their faith that one day that same body would be raised
from the dead. Therefore, for centuries, the Church prohibited and
abhorred cremation.
At the time
of the Second Vatican Council, however, this position was
reviewed and the conclusion was reached that, as long as cremation
takes place for good reason and not for the purpose of denigrating or
denying the faith, it is permitted to Catholics.
"Good
reasons" for cremation may be as varied as (1) cost; (2)
transportability -- when a family member dies while in another country;
(3) preference of entombment above-ground.
If
cremation has already taken place, am
I still allowed to have a funeral Mass?
That's a
more difficult question. At present, it is preferred that the
body be present for the funeral liturgy and that cremation take place
after the Mass. Many of the symbols of baptism used during the funeral
liturgy (burial pall, sprinkling with holy water, Paschal candle) are
most fully understood when the actual body -- which was baptized -- is
present.
Some
families are concerned that funeral costs will increase if they
have to delay the cremation until
after the funeral Mass, and often
this is true. However, it is possible to rent a casket for the funeral,
which lowers the cost considerably.
If
cremation has already taken place, most pastors prefer to celebrate
a Memorial Mass, rather than the Funeral Mass, or Mass of the
Resurrection. It's best to check with the pastor of your parish before
making any decisions in this regard.
If I have
decided to be cremated, will my
body have to be embalmed?
It depends
on the length of time that will elapse before the cremation
takes place. If cremation will take place within 72 hours, embalming is
not mandated by law.
However, if
the family chooses to have a "viewing" or time of
visitation before the funeral, it is definitely preferable to have the
body embalmed.
Some people
ask about "direct disposition" ... that is, when the body
is removed from the home or hospital where death has occurred and is
taken immediately to the crematory facility. Although this sounds like
a quick and simple solution, eliminating the need for all the grief
associated with "viewing" may not be the best answer. Family and
friends need to mourn together. The time of visitation is a wonderful
opportunity for the expression of grief, for support of one another,
for remembering the one who has died, and for beginning the process of
"letting go". It is a mistake to think that you can avoid grief by
rushing through the process.
What is the
Church's position on the
scattering of cremated remains?
We believe
that after cremation, although the form of the body has
changed, it is still present in the form of cremated remains, sometimes
also referred to as "ashes". Therefore, the remains -- before AND after
cremation -- merit the same respect and dignity and should be buried or
entombed accordingly.
From a
practical perspective, scattering cremated remains leaves the
family and friends with no place to visit and no place where a memorial
can be placed as an everlasting tribute and remembrance.
Legally,
however, the Province of Alberta does not prohibit the
scattering of cremated remains although permission should be obtained
before scattering in a public place (a park, for instance) or on
property owned by someone other than the estate of the deceased person.
Where
can
cremation urns be placed?
Cremated remains
should be treated with respect since they
are the remains of the human body. This treatment includes the care and
attention to their appropriate placement.
Proper interment
of cremated remains is available in the
Mausoleum, Columbarium or traditional ground burial in a Catholic Cemetery. The
total number of urns that can be placed in
each
niche or grave is preset by the Cemetery. At the time of purchase,
depending on the use of the space, the number of burials is deturmined.
If
after purchase the family would like to make a change in the use of the
space, depending on the type of space and number of burials
allowed,families may be able to arrange for the
additional placement of a cremated remains into a full sized
family
grave that is already occupied by a casket burial.
Ownership and permission to bury are
established prior to the additional burial(s) being arranged and an additional user fee will apply.
Cremated remains
are buried or entombed in a place that
provides for distinguished and adequate memorialization of the deceased.
Can
I do
something other than bury the cremated remains?
The Church
requires a reverent disposition of the
cremated remains of each person. Thus, remains should be buried in the
ground
or placed in either a niche or crypt. They are not to
be divided, scattered, placed in jewelry
or statuary, commingled with another person or animal or subject to
other
practice other than permanent, reverent, marked placement.
I
wish to be
cremated, are there special areas for burial of cremated remains?
Church teaching
insists that cremated remains be given the
same respect as the body, including the manner in which they are buried
or
entombed. They should be buried in a
Catholic cemetery and use the rites provided by the Order of Christian
Funerals.
There are
cremation areas set out in all cemeteries, plots are sized to fit all
cremation urns and optional cremation vaults. Cremation
spaces can be single or double,
with the appropriate memorialization. A
regular, full sized space may be chosen for multiple cremains burials
or a
burial of cremains with a casket. In
certain circumstances, cremains may be buried in the same grave as a
relative
who was previously buried in a casket space.
POLICY AND GUIDELINES
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Will
current
cemetery policy always be in place?
Old, even
ancient, traditions have established many of
the policies and procedures that exist today. As society and church
life
changes, new customs will arise to shape our policy in the future.
These new
policies, however, will be created with the utmost consideration for
our
Christian faithful and will always maintain the integrity of our
Catholic
burial traditions.
Why
wasn't I
informed about a policy change?
Our historical
databases are not updated to reflect
generations beyond the original owners of burial rights. Contacting all
owners,
heirs of burial rights and other interested parties is, therefore, not
possible.
Edmonton
Catholic Cemeteries makes significant effort to
communicate policy changes with our Christian Faithful. We use all
available
means of modern communication to convey new information. Signs are
posted and
brochures placed at the entrances and in the offices of our Cemeteries.
The web site - www.edmontoncatholiccemeteries.org
- is the
source of accurate, complete and up-to-date information on how to
contact our
offices for those within and outside our City and surrounding area.
Why
can't I
decorate a grave, a crypt or a niche any way I want?
We strive to
balance individual and family decoration
choices with the overall administration of a large cemetery system to
assure
order, beauty and tidiness. By our policies we strive to avoid
subjectivity and
assure objectivity in handling decorations and we wish to deal with
everyone
fairly and equally.
For outdoor
burial, all decorations must be in approved
vases and be safe and sized
appropriately. Graves can be
decorated according to
the time of year. In flat marker areas
crosses and memorialization can be set out over winter for
identification
purposes, but for maintenance purposes these decorations
must be removed from the space in spring through late fall.
Crypt and niche
fronts in our mausoleums can have only
memorialization and decoration approved by the cemetery. Our
Decorations
Policies and Decorations Privileges are written out and available at
both
offices for those having specific questions about decorations.
Can
I disinter
or disentomb my loved one for burial elsewhere?
Edmonton
Catholic Cemeteries always discourages this
difficult and expensive endeavor. We believe Rest in Peace means Rest
in Peace.
Nevertheless, we support
families that make
this decision for valid reasons - keeping families together, desiring
aboveground entombment, desiring better memorialization opportunities,
etc. We
do everything possible to make this type of move reverent and
respectful. Further information about disenterments and arrangements can be made with the Cemetery Offices.
Can I
be buried
with my grandfather?
In Edmonton
Catholic Cemeteries, generally only one burial
is permitted per grave. However, with
proper authorization, cremated remains of a relative (spouse, child,
grandchild) may be interred with an existing burial.
It’s a good idea to make these
arrangements
in advance so several items can be addressed.
The cemetery will
check that there is enough space. Most of
the time this is not an issue, but
because of memorials, trees and vaults, the cemetery will check
available room
for additional burial and memorialization.
Since in many
cases, the lot was purchased long ago there
are likely several descendents who have the legal right, in common, to
request
or authorize burials. All equal family
members must agree that you can be buried in this grave, and give you
written
permission that will be added to the Cemeteries records for future
reference. By
making these arrangements in advance all will be ready when you need to
use
this space for burial.
Can
I obtain
information on my family from the cemetery?
Because we
welcome and encourage frequent contact, our
cemetery office staff responds to requests for burial locations related
to
personal visits, and other cemetery related activities.
If you
are
seeking background information for
genealogical purposes, you may call our office for a single search: for
more
than one search we ask that all
requests be
made in writing or through our website with complete
postal or email address.
Who
works at the cemetery?
There are
approximately 13 full-time permanent employees
and about 6 additional employees added for the growing season.
Our staff,
headed
by the Manager of Cemeteries, handles
all facets of cemetery services - management, accounting, customer
service,
record keeping, burials, grounds and maintenance, sales and information
resources.
The Field crew
moves between the five cemeteries handling
all facets of maintenance, memorial installation and burial service.
The Office
staff
are dedicated to service and ministry and
have years of competence and experience
dealing will all aspects of the cemetery ministry and a special sensitivity to the issues of death and grief.
Your
investment with the Archdiocese preserves and
perpetuates, operates and maintains the five Archdiocesan Cemeteries
and one
mausoleum operated by
Edmonton Catholic Cemeteries.
FUNERAL AND BURIAL
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What
is the Order
of Christian Funerals?
The
Order of
Christian Funerals
are the Catholic rites at and after death. It is modeled as a journey
of prayer
with the deceased from the deathbed to place of burial. It expresses
deep
emotions of profound faith in God and enduring love for the
deceased. The rites also convey
thanksgiving to God, hope in Christ's Resurrection, consolation of the
living
and compassion for those hurting, afraid or sad.
The three main
liturgical rites are to be celebrated in
full, not shortened or omitted. They require time and travel. Death is
never
convenient.
The three main
prayer moments:
- The Vigil at a funeral home
or at the deceased's parish.
This is a time to pray for the soul of the faithful departed and all
other souls of family members. It is a time to remember the life
of the deceased and comfort the living.
- The Burial
Mass celebrated with the faith community where the deceased belonged or
where a
family member belongs.
The family is reminded that this loved one who was baptized in Christ
and nourished at the altar, still lives on and shares in the hope of
the Resurrection of the body. If the body is present this is a
mass of Christian Burial. If cremains are present this is a
Memorial Mass for the Dead.
-The Rite of Committal is prayed at the
cemetery, either at
a graveside or in a chapel. In the sacred ground
of the cemetery we call to mind our faith in the Risen Christ as the
faithful wait together in joyful hope for the resurrection of their
bodies.
What
more is
there about the Committal?
Ordinarily, the
Rite of Committal, the end of the funeral
journey, takes place in the cemetery at the actual place of burial or
in a
chapel near the burial site.
Often inclement weather determines where the Rite of
Committal takes
place. It may take place completely in
the church, completely in the cemetery, or partly in the church and the
cemetery.
The final
leave-taking should be meaningful and
unhurried. It is the end of a life-long journey. The prayers of
committal
recognize that the place of eventual burial has been transformed by
means of
Christ's death and resurrection.
Can I
arrange for
a Funeral Mass in a chapel at one of the Catholic Cemeteries?
No.
While the
Catholic Church
offers immense support and comfort through the Order of Christian
Funerals,
Funeral Masses are to be celebrated within a parish.
- What if a
person has not
practiced the Catholic Faith for some time?
- What if a person has been
cared for in institutions for years?
- What if a person has lived away in retirement for years
and has not lived in a local parish?
In all these
instances, contact a parish, either a parish
from the deceased's past or the parish of a family member. Parish
staffs
understand how things are. People who lived their last days or years in
a
different locale can assume their previous membership is still in
effect at
death. In most cases, a parish will be accommodating, understanding and
welcoming.
Our chapel is
available, at an nominal fee, for a Memorial
Service (not the Funeral Mass) or for the Rite of Committal.
We also
use our
chapel to provide a Monthly Memorial Mass
for all who have been buried in the cemeteries as well as an Annual
Celebration
of Life Mass and timely memorial services that allow families to come
together
and express our faith and share our loss of our loved ones.
The weeks and months following a death in the family are numbing and
difficult. Prayer and participation in the church and visits to
the cemetery can provide comfort and and a way of continuing the
relationship with the deceased family member. Every day, family
members experience the peace and comfort that comes from visiting the
ground set aside and made sacred, the resting place of their loved ones.
I spend
winters in a warmer climate --
what happens if I die in another country?
Arrangements
can be made with a local (Edmonton) funeral home to have
the body transported back home for burial. It should be neither
complicated nor expensive to arrange, so "shop around" for a funeral
home and ask about pre-arranging. Once advance arrangements have been
made, all it takes is one phone call from the family at the time of
death; funeral home staff will take over from there and handle all the
legal requirements.
What do I
do if a family member dies
suddenly and unexpectedly at home?
Call 911.
The police will notify the Medical Examiner, who will
investigate the cause of death and advise the family as soon as it is
possible to have the funeral home proceed with funeral arrangements.
If the
death is due to illness and the person has been under a doctor's
care, call the funeral home. The funeral home will call the Medical
Examiner, who will authorize removal of the body and will call the
doctor to sign a death certificate. If the person has been registered
with Home Care, the funeral home will arrange removal without the need
to notify the Medical Examiner.
Probably
the first call a Catholic person will make is to the
parish priest. There are ritual prayers that are said immediately after
the death, before the body is taken from home or hospital. Also, your
pastor can be of great comfort and assistance to the family at this
time of confusion and grief.
Should I
make funeral arrangements with
the parish first, or the funeral home?
One thing
to keep in mind, when making funeral arrangements, is that
the funeral home can probably be more flexible about dates and times
than the parish, due to the Pastor's other commitments such as daily
Mass, weddings, etc. So FIRST make a call to the parish to find out
when the church is available, THEN call the funeral home and make the
practical arrangements.
From the
funeral home you should go to the Catholic cemetery, even if
arrangements have been pre-paid, to sign for permission to prepare the
grave or crypt for burial.
After that,
or on the following day, you can go to the parish office to
plan the funeral liturgy. It's a good idea to phone for an appointment
since some parishes rely on volunteer help for this ministry and will
need to arrange for someone to meet with you.
I'd like to
donate organs for transplant
-- what effect will this have on funeral arrangements?
When organs
have been donated for transplant, or when a body is donated
to science, the remains are always cremated later. Usually the cremated
remains will not be available for burial until long after the Memorial
Mass has taken place.
It is
appropriate for the Committal Service (the third and final part
of the Funeral Liturgy) to take place at the graveside or in the
Mausoleum at the time of burial or entombment. The grave or cremation
niche is prepared and the family and celebrant (not necessarily a
priest) gather for the prayers and rites of the Committal
Service. The
date
and time of such a service must be arranged through the
Cemetery
office.
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